I've seen countless videos that try to establish strict rules for how women should wear their hair after the age of 15. They claim that long hair is inappropriate for older women, that trying to be trendy and youthful is a mistake, and that letting your hair go gray is aging. But can we please just stop with these arbitrary rules? Hi, I'm Gabby, a makeup and hair stylist with 17 years of experience. Throughout my career, I've worked with women of all ages and backgrounds, and I've always believed that hair and makeup are forms of self-expression and art. Just like there are no set rules for how to decorate your Christmas tree or your house, there shouldn't be any rules for how to decorate yourself.

Let me say it again: there are no rules for how you should decorate yourself. You should wear your hair in whatever way makes you feel happy and confident. However, if you're feeling stuck or unsure about what to do with your hair, I'm here to help. Today, I'm going to share five haircut and style ideas that I often recommend to my clients over 50 to help them feel fabulous.

1. The Blunt Bob: This style features a strong, unlayered baseline that hits at or above the shoulder. You can wear it with or without a fringe. As we age, our hair naturally becomes thinner, which can make it appear wispy and hard to manage.

A blunt bob works well for women over 50 because it creates the illusion of thick, healthy hair. It can also give you an instant facelift. If you've always had long hair and are hesitant to go short, or if you have a weak jawline or carry more weight around your face, consider a mid-length cut with long layers.

2. Mid-length Cut with Long Layers: This haircut, especially when combined with face-framing layers, is universally flattering. It works for all ages, face shapes, hair types, and body types. The length of this cut prevents it from widening the face or making the hair look thin. By adding layers at the front and keeping them lighter at the back, you can soften your features and create movement that contours the face.

As we age, our skin loses elasticity, and this haircut helps minimize sagging in the neck and jawline area.

3. Adding a Fringe: A fringe can make the face appear smaller, camouflage forehead lines, and soften fine lines around the eyes. There are various fringe styles to choose from, such as airy and see-through, side-swept, or curtain fringe. However, it's crucial to ensure that the fringe is cut properly. Avoid strong, blunt, and short bangs that draw attention to lines or puffiness around the eyes.

Softness and diffusion are key when framing the face or eyes.

4. The Pixie Cut: The pixie cut has been trending recently, and for a good reason. It's quick and easy to style, making it perfect for those with mobility issues. With the right products, you can create texture and playfulness. You can customize this cut by going for a short shag style, undercutting one side, or keeping the front long with a cropped back. The versatility of the pixie cut allows you to tailor it to your individual style and face shape.

5. Embrace Your Natural Hair Texture: My final tip is to embrace your hair's natural texture.

For years, I fought against my wavy hair until I realized how beautiful it actually is. Embracing your natural texture can save you time and energy spent on styling. Simply enhancing your natural waves, curls, or straight hair can give you a unique and effortless look. So, if you're ready, embrace your natural hair and let it shine.

Remember, these suggestions are just ideas to get you started. Ultimately, the decision of how to wear your hair should be based on what makes you feel happy and confident. There are no hard and fast rules. So, go ahead and experiment, find a style that suits you, and rock it with confidence.